Prepare for cheerful chaos and hard love - we’re back with another round of Seven Minutes in Heaven!
In these special episodes we answer at least four listener questions, but each question only gets seven minutes. A quickie, if you will. ;)
The topics we cover in this episode include:
- Online sexting buds disappearing
- Check-ins on flirt welcomeness
- Long-term mismatched libido
- Challenges with flirting on the spectrum
Creators mentioned in this episode:
Article Recommendation:
Sexual Currency
- Article by Swell - from Dame Wellness Dot Come
- What is Sexual Currency? The article describe it as:
‘ Anytime we hug, kiss, rub, squeeze, and nuzzle into a romantic partner, there is an erotic charge. This comes from the sexual relationship that exists between couples.. Sexual currency is a little different from physical affection. It is sexually charged touch that has erotic meaning.’ - Loved this article it’s a great reminder that keeping a saucy fire going in our relationships is work, FUN WORK, that we can make lots of little investments into
- Could be particularly helpful to anyone experiencing low libido in their relationship
Instagram Post Recommendation:
Topic: Relationships with different neurotypes
- Stevie Writes shares neat things on kink, non-monogamy, Autism, sexuality and gender on their Instagram
- Really wow concept to see specified and to really sit and consider how this affects our perceptions coming together in communications and our experience of our reality
- The idea that our realities are all different - our perception is not reality - it is a version of it
- Especially loved this:
‘'Getting comfortable with the ideas that difference can be met with curiosity and not condemnation is powerful work'
Instagram Recommendation:
@thefatsextherapist
- Amazing trauma-informed sex therapist
- Spoke on an Instagram Live about having a maz (masturbate) on top of your bedcovers while naked, rather than covering yourself up, staying clothed etc. By seeing ourselves in a slightly more embodied way, we can create micro-moments of body acceptance and appreciation. We challenge our dear listeners to give this a try!
Resource Recommendation:
YearCompass
- A great reflection tool to help me let go of a hard year, and set me up for the new one
- We are both filling this out this year (Lauren has done hers already ofc)
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Lauren and Vix
