Often our greatest challenge is to accept things we cannot change,
the stuff that just ‘is the way it is’, even though in hindsight we
usually can see we had no choice, in the moment we burn ourselves up or
out or both, ‘tilting at windmills’. On the inside this can show up as
focusing our thoughts, feelings, and emotions on negative situations and
circumstances that have been and gone or that have yet to actually
happen. When we are convinced that things can only b [...]