没想到生活还可以*再被按下暂停键...
...经历了临终关怀的无力与温暖,体会了何为“没有真正的感同身受”。在这个交流看似便捷却无比割裂的时代,我们的伤心常常是“nuanced”的,细微而复杂,却总在漫天闲聊或被轻易的安慰中失语。
但失望之余,我也被一些瞬间深深感动。家人的心意,像裂缝里透出的光,笨拙却真实。想想还是更新这期节目,是一次坦诚的分享,以及那份老土却依然坚信的——“continuing bonds”--- keep the memory of the deceased while focusing on the living.
【延伸思考】
10:10 "Two things stayed with me. First: I still can’t understand how [....]how they could give up before the fight was even fought. Second: how deeply moved I was by the extended family. In a modern world where families scatter and drift, where funerals are half-empty, these people ...."
as always 感谢收听.