Today's Guest: Bill O'Herron
Bill O’Herron, LCSW is a corporate executive, practicing therapist (weekends and evenings), and writer who seeks to use his 33 years of financial sales management experience, 24 years of marriage, 15 years of counseling clients, and 8,500 hours of sitting quietly to help his clients better understand themselves and deepen their relationships.
Bill teaches that all our relationships with others, especially our marriage, started in 4th grade, when our limbic-emotional body learned, absorbed, and inherited our parents’ lives and experiences. We are all therefore married to our own old, unconscious emotions more so than to our spouse.
His research shows that relationships fail for one single reason: a lack of understanding of one’s own emotions and reaction patterns created in childhood. His work with archetypes demonstrates also that relationships are not a single experience or dyad between two people but are eight unique relationships all occurring at the same time.
Three key concepts he uses to accelerate client’s work are Stand in the Fire, 2nd Law of Thermodynamics at Home, and Relatus. These three concepts provide direct access to understanding self.
He celebrates in and humorously expounds on the belief that working on self, which will automatically improve the dynamics of all our relationships, is the most important thing in life, and that what we do right now in our relationship echoes through posterity, changing who our grandchildren's children become.
Bill graduated from Middlebury College, VT with a BA in English, and earned a Master of Science degree from Columbia University School of Social Work, NY in ’03.
On this episode:
Amber is joined by counselor and sales entrepreneur Bill O'Herron for a conversation on connecting with people, substantive conversations, and gut-based intuitions.
Tweetable Quotes
"We are taught what's socially acceptable. We don't follow our gut at times because doing that was labeled irrational our entire lives." -Amber Fuhriman
"Your intuition lives in silence. Your brain is a traffic cop. If you attempt anything outside of complete silence you'll be veered off course." -Bill O'Herron
"We spend so much of our lives trying to convince people why we're right and they're wrong... only to realize that it doesn't matter because their mind says they're right." -Amber Fuhriman
"We've observed our parent's lives during our most impressionable years." -Bill O'Herron
Bill O'Herron:
www.wholecounseling.com
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