Many of us become frustrated in life because we are not where we believe we should be, yet we must remember that life is a journey and we should embrace the now! Join Rob as he discusses why embracing the now will help you find you as well as the importance of finding peace as a leader and why caring for others is a vital part of your role.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- We often get so frustrated and angry, that is because we are often wanting something which we are not achieving. Yet, life goes on, it is a journey that is about embracing the now so that we can find the joy in the now, and use that to go forward.
- Sometimes, the only answer at times is solitude. Putting your pen down and finding the time to yourself will help your upcoming journey become clear.
- Try and be at peace as a leader, as you are the one setting an example. When you haven't got the victory, be at peace and understand that it is not all sunlight and rainbows. There is beauty in digging and preparing the soil for the next opportunity.
- Caring is a necessary part of the leadership that doesn't get talked about. If you are with a group of people for any amount of time, there will be a need to care at some point.
- Sometimes, it is just about being there, with that person. They may not need an answer, they may not need advice, they just need someone and their time. The ability to give time is important when being a leader.
- It seems to be that the most important thing to many people is about having the greatest number of likes or the greatest number of followers on social media. There is no point in having all of those things if you are a fragile mess. Self-esteem is the foundation that will lead you to your real success.
- Doing the right thing, and having the right character will give you more popularity than you ever considered necessary. Once you have self-esteem you won't need validation from others. You will just have the only relationship that you need, and that is with the one with yourself.
BEST MOMENTS
“Solitude is the only answer.”
“Try and be at peace as a leader.”
“It's about just being present.”
“Self-esteem is the foundation that will lead you to your real success.”
VALUABLE RESOURCES
Leader Manager Coach Podcast
The Stoic Art of Living: Inner Resilience and Outer Results - Tom Morris
ABOUT THE HOST
Rob Ryles is a UEFA licensed coach with a League Managers Association qualification and a science and medicine background. He has worked in the football industry in Europe, the USA, and Africa; at International, Premiership, League, Non-League and grassroots levels with both World Cup and European Championship experience. Rob Ryles prides himself on having a forward-thinking and progressive approach to the game built through his own experience as well as lessons learned from several highly successful managers and coaches. The Leader Manager Coach Podcast is where we take a deep dive examining knowledge, philosophies, wisdom and insight to help you lead, manage and coach in football, sport and life.
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