Description

Your outcomes are significantly connected to your identity. So, in this episode of the Leader Manager Coach Podcast, Rob teaches you how to find and value not just yours, but also your mentees'/team'/students' identity. Finding your identity requires time and, it may take years for others. But once, you've found it and know how you can use it at your advantage then you're unstoppable in achieving success.

Also, if you want to develop a high-performing team, you have to recognise your player's identity and help them understand how this significant part of themselves can help them and the team. If they haven't found it yet, guide them, so do they do it on their own. Start listening in to know more.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• The definition of identity is who you are; it's about you and the people that you lead. And in the dictionary, it's defined as the repeated beingness; it's what you repeatedly do.
• James Clear's 2 Aspects of Creating Success:
  • Focus on the outcome.
  • Focus on your identity.
• The outcome is part of your identity. So, for example, if you want your team to win, you have to consider each team player and evaluate if they can bring you your desired outcome.
• How can you deeply understand your own identity, so that you can use it at your advantage? It will take time to do this. There will be a lot of pondering, thinking and evaluating that is needed. It's more than a pen and paper that you'll need to know it thoroughly.
• Fundamental Things That Can Help You Define Your Identity:
  • Authenticity
  • Presence
  • Honesty
  • Bravery
  • Loyalty
  • Reliability
  • Humility
  • Resilience

BEST MOMENTS                                                                                                                              

• “Identity is much related to the outcome process.”
• “It's not what you say; it's who you are that matters.”
• “When you are coming up with your identity, it has to be something that resonates with you.”
• “You can demonstrate loyal behaviour by doing what you think is right and what feels right no matter what the consequences.”
• “Achievement takes time.”
• “Egotism is the funniest disease in the world; it makes everybody sick apart from the one who's got it.”

VALUABLE RESOURCES                 

• Atomic Habits: Tiny Changes, Remarkable Results by James Clear

ABOUT THE HOST

Rob Ryles is a UEFA qualified coach with a League Managers Association qualification and a science and medicine background. He has worked in the football industry in Europe, USA and Africa; at International, Premiership, League, Non-League and grassroots levels with both World Cup and European Championship experience.

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