In this episode, Rob shares his experiences and knowledge of how we can help others get from ‘there to there.'
He explains how our journey to self-realisation is key in the process of reaching our goals and how we need to take small steps living the moment to achieve what we ultimately want.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
It's helpful to view many things on a continuum.
At one end of the continuum, there are people who are diagnosed as not well psychologically and at the other end is the individual who is functioning at a very high-level, someone who is performing extremely well and at the top of their game.
Aiming to get the player to a different level, can be an impossible task because of the time frame.
You can't get there from there – the gap from where you are currently to where you want to be is too big.
If you are an achiever, a goal setter its highly likely you've set goals in pursuit of your dreams but then life comes along and you haven't hit the targets, this can create a negative state of mind.
It's ok to set a goal that in 5 years' time I will …..
To say that you are going to achieve getting to the moon in the next 6 months is unrealistic and is setting you up for failure.
‘My self-worth is less because I didn't achieve what they wanted me too.'
The link between the power of ‘they' is highly linked to our own personal journey and getting from there to there but only you know what the journey you take is.
Helicopter people
This is the name given to people who hover above others determining and controlling what they do, think and become. Ultimately this will result in failure as we are all on our own journey of self-actualisation. It's about what you as one person wants to become.
If you are able to develop your self-actualisation you will become an inspiration, influencer, and facilitator.
BEST MOMENTS
‘We put in that deep work week after week'
‘Something with a great foundation that can't easily be destroyed'
‘This journey is not something where we can set a goal it's about the moment we are in now'
‘Only you in your environment know who you are setting your goals for'
‘The only power we have is now'
‘Help those people in our lives to become the people they want to be and experience a happy journey.'
VALUABLE RESOURCES
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ABOUT THE HOST
Rob Ryles is a UEFA A licensed coach with a League Managers Association qualification and a science and medicine background. He has worked in the football industry in Europe, USA and Africa; at International, Premiership, League, Non-League and grassroots levels with both World Cup and European Championship experience.
Rob Ryles prides himself on having a forward thinking and progressive approach to the game built through his own experience as well as lessons learned from a number of highly successful managers and coaches.
The Leader Manager Coach Podcast is where we take a deep dive examining knowledge, philosophies, wisdom and insight to help you lead, manage and coach in football, sport and life.
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