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Your kindness wasn't a weakness. Your loyalty wasn't naive. Your determination to succeed wasn't something to apologize for. These were your strengths. But to a narcissist, they were something else entirely: life support.

Narcissists don't choose their victims randomly. They search for specific traits and attributes, looking for individuals who will feed their agenda and keep their supply intact. While most people see qualities like empathy, a servant's heart, and being teachable as respectful and endearing, narcissists view them through a completely different lens. They see opportunity. They see control.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Why your kindness was tested through countless trials to ensure you'd stay pleasant even when they pushed every button
• How your loyalty was groomed over years through covert training you didn't even know you were participating in
• Why your determination to succeed became a challenge for them (they see how far they can bring you down as an invisible trophy)
• How being teachable means being easily manipulated, allowing them to become the authority in your life
• Why they exploit your empathy to meet their needs while yours go unmet
• How your servant's heart is drained until you're exhausted, then they conveniently forget or refuse to help when you need them most
• What being "in the fog" means and why past abuse makes you more vulnerable to narcissists

Listen if you've ever wondered why you were chosen, if you blame yourself for staying, or if you're trying to understand how someone could target the very best parts of who you are. This isn't about weakness. It's about recognizing that narcissists prey on strength, and understanding this is crucial to your healing.

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