Description

In todays episode John discusses how to increase intimacy between you and your partner using relaxing massage techniques. He chats with Denis Merkas, founder of Melt Massage for Couples which teaches couples how to use massage techniques in their own homes and has specialised in this field for a number of years. Denis has taught over 50,000 couples on how to use massage in their daily lives and talks about how his experiences have led and influenced him in his profession and private life. They discuss the nuances and complications of relationships and offer insight into keeping them fresh and exciting.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Denis has moved his teaching online to reach a maximum number of couples at a time. This creates a good atmosphere of a shared experience.
• His background and upbringing informed his decision to start teaching couples massage. Physical touch is a lot of peoples ‘Love Language’ and massage can facilitate this.
• Massage can be utilised to initiate a sexual interaction but can just be used as relaxation and stress relief so its versatility within relationships is useful. 
• New experiences are the key to keeping relationships fun. 

BEST MOMENTS

'I was thinking how do I really woo this girl with my massage technique and how do I do it differently to what I do at work?’

‘You forget that there are other people in the room, if someone moans, the rest of the class is like “oh I’m a little bit jealous” and people are laughing and the energy is great in the room.’

‘We need to find out ways to keep it exciting, to keep it new and fresh and it’s really, really hard. Easily 99% of the listeners here will do the same date night on a regular basis just because we know what it is.’

‘After that you take your time. The classes get harder, the techniques get more difficult. We start looking for knots, areas of tension. I show you how to use your thumbs, how to use your hands effectively so your hands don’t get tired.’

GUEST RESOURCES

Contact 

https://couplesmassagecourses.com

Email

denis@couplesmassagecourses.com

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I am John Kenny, The Relationship Guy - Coaching people to experience healthy loving relationships.

Having spent a life choosing unhealthy relationships and self sabotaging my own success, I now coach people to live a life they choose.

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