In this episode of the Tough Love podcast, we explore the inner critic and its powerful influence on our relationships and sense of self. We discuss how this critical voice is shaped by early experiences with caregivers and rooted in a primal need for safety and belonging. When left unchecked, the inner critic can become harsh and shaming, fueling self-doubt, chronic inadequacy, and even depression.
Ryan and Luke emphasize that overcoming the inner critic doesn’t mean silencing it, but meeting it with self-compassion and understanding. We explore how supportive relationships—especially men’s groups—can create the safety needed to soften shame and transform the inner critic into a more encouraging, grounded inner voice. This episode invites listeners into deeper self-awareness, connection, and the work of cultivating a more compassionate relationship with themselves.
