If you’re a person who sees further ahead than most people, you cannot date someone who doesn’t have the same vision. This is the focus of Dhayany and Demetrius in this episode because they see couples with this problem all the time. They relate this concept to the differences between an eagle and a pigeon and assert that you will not soar high in your visions if you need to carry along a pigeon.
Dhayany encourages us to take a second to imagine the next five to ten years. She provides examples of questions we should be asking ourselves and says that when we visualize these things, they can actually happen. Demetrius then speaks to why these questions are important when trying to grow a business. We then hear about the crucial differences between sight and vision.
It’s important to understand how we can translate what our vision is to our partner. Dhayany comments on the fact that if she were a pigeon, she would have wasted a lot of Demetrius’ time by tearing apart his ideas and visions. The two then recall how they used to sell their new cars soon after acquiring them in order to fund investment opportunities.
Demetrius gets into the complications that can arise when a mutual vision isn’t discussed or agreed upon in a relationship. He explains why women are incubators in the life of men who always give back more than they take, and then Dhayany brings up the precautions that should be taken when investing in a relationship. We finish by learning from Dhayany a way to judge the character of a woman.