Dhayany and Demetrius have realized that a lot of couples don’t understand that you cannot secure a new bag successfully without getting rid of the old bag. Meaning, you cannot grow as a couple until you make all of your internal issues known to your partner. Dhayany and Demetrius want us to do this exercise with our partners tonight and guide us through how it should be approached.
The first point discussed is Bondage, with Demetrius stating that it cripples a lot of relationships. Dhayany says that when they see one half of a couple in bondage, that person often doesn’t even realize it. She adds that another aspect they don’t realize if how bondage affects the people around them.
The next facet is tearing down the walls. After they are torn down, Dhayany encourages learning to build with a vision which she says can be accomplished through affirmations. The two then relate this to becoming a power couple.
The healing process is the third topic of discussion, and Demetrius begins it by talking about how it can be fun. Dhayany asserts that even though it can be fun, it’s also scary. However, she claims that if we know that our partner wants what is best for us, we need to trust the process. A discussion then begins about forgiveness.
Dhayany and Demetrius had to go through this exercise themselves, so they reflect on what that process looked like for them. Demetrius recalls that an important part was understanding the benefits of doing it instead of just making sure it gets done.
