It is so easy to fall into the trap of commiseration when dealing with life's challenges. Sometimes we get ourselves caught up in a situation that is not working for us and we can't see the forest for the trees. Becoming solution oriented is determined by many factors most of which you have total control over. Let go of that feeling of frustration that comes with issues as it does not serve you to find solutions. Listen along and find out how you can be more solution oriented.