So how do you talk to your spouse? Does the way that you talk to your spouse enhance your love relationship with them or does it detract? We have an incredible opportunity to love our spouse through the words that we say to them. That’s what we’ll be looking at on this episode of Married By Design.
We want to lay out some foundational principles of our speech. We can find so often that we forget these basic principles that, if we practice them, will build into our marriage and strengthen our love for each other. And if we don’t follow them, it will lead us to frustration and frustration for our spouse.
Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to set aside some time individually to think about the things that you appreciate and love about your spouse. You need to have a deep reservoir of areas of appreciation that you can draw from when you are talking to your spouse. Maybe make out a list in a journal of all the ways that you appreciate your spouse. Not just the things they do, but as Solomon and his bride did, their physical beauty, their character, and how much they mean to you. With that list, make it a point every day to speak as Solomon and his bride did, to your spouse.
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