In this powerful kickoff to Care to Change’s June series on Men’s Mental Health, April Bordeau sits down with clinician Kyle Hopkins to open an honest and deeply insightful conversation about the struggles many men face—but rarely talk about.
Together, they explore:
- Why men often suffer in silence
- The emotional cost of unaddressed stress
- How emotional suppression leads to isolation, outbursts, and relational breakdowns
- How cultural stigmas around masculinity can hinder emotional wellness
- Ways women can compassionately support the men in their lives
- Practical steps men can take to begin their healing journey
This episode is a compassionate, faith-informed dialogue aimed at breaking stereotypes and equipping both men and women with tools for understanding, supporting, and healing. It’s a message of hope, courage, and change.
💬 Key Takeaways
- Men and emotion: Many men grow up believing they must avoid vulnerability and “push through” discomfort, resulting in narrowed emotional expression—often limited to anger and happiness.
- The myth of toughness: Emotional repression doesn’t protect families; it erodes emotional safety at home.
- Courage to change: The first step for many men is simply naming what they’re feeling—and acknowledging that something needs to change.
- Modeling matters: When men model emotional honesty, especially to other men and their children, they create safe space for healing and growth.
- For women: Avoid “why” questions; instead ask “what” and “how” questions to create open, judgment-free conversations.
📚 Resources Mentioned
- Book: Depression, Anxiety, and Other Things We Don’t Talk About by Ryan Casey Waller
- Support Networks: Local church groups, men’s mentoring groups, and Care to Change counseling services
- More from Care to Change: Past episodes on men’s mental health and leadership are available in our podcast archive
📞 Need Support?
You’re not alone. Whether you’re a man ready to take a step toward change, or someone who loves one—reach out. Visit caretochange.org or call us to be connected with the right resources.
“You are worth it. Your relationships are worth it. Help is available.” — April Bordeau
