Danyell is a Relationship Master Coach, Speaker and Podcaster.
About Danyell:
I didn’t start off my self-awareness journey as a relationship master. I began as a relationship disaster.For years, I struggled to understand who I was and why I repeatedly made decisions that created years of sadness and the loss of relationships that mattered deeply to me. My feelings of frustration, anger, and blame were overwhelming. I blamed my spouse, my job, and my brother’s death for all of my problems. I spent years with 4 different therapists spilling my guts and praying that they could fix me. Nothing seemed to make the inner pain go away. Finally, after years of inner turmoil, I gave up and filed for a divorce. When I started dating again, I hoped for a fresh start. What I found were the same frustrations and stuck patterns.On the verge of another failed relationship, I made a decision: I was going to take a good look in the mirror because the common denominator in my relationship disasters was me.
As a business person with an MBA and an engineer, I believed in education, I believed in problem-solving. If I could just find the right formulas, plug in the right resources, tap the best experts, I could find a way through to the harmony, balance, and self-acceptance I was craving—a way to show up as my best and highest self, so I could more authentically love the people in my life.I began a journey of self-discovery that led me to uncover my blind spots, free my limiting beliefs, restore my sense of peace and worthiness, and abolish the anger that had plagued me for so long. So I dove in. Personal Leadership programs. Self-help books you name it I did it. I tried everything; I became my own guinea pig, keeping what was effective, what resonated and felt good, throwing away the rest. And I noticed something amazing.
Something was missing: My anger and depression. The part of me that had been a constant companion, sabotaging my connection and keeping me from relationship success—had faded. Gone. I’d developed a growth mindset, and learned to guard that mindset diligently. Positive feelings replaced the angry outbursts, frustration, and gloom. Acceptance became a new normal, as I let go of and forgave my past and began to live my life again. A life of purpose, direction, and happiness. And with that: Love and Inner Peace!I watched my relationship with Larry slowly transform before my eyes. My partner seemed so different—attentive, patient, loving, passionate, and kind. We got married a few years later and we now share a marriage full of appreciation. One where respect rules, playfulness permeates and fights are pretty much non-existent. But I didn’t change him. What had changed—completely, permanently, profoundly—was me.That was the birth of my Inner Mastery system—a hard-won, tried and true strategy full of impactful lessons, actionable strategies, tactics, and tools that allow you to transform your relationship by working on the one thing you can control: You.
As a Dating and Relationship coach, I’ve been helping clients find their way to resilience and inner peace for 4 years with 90% positive results. My program isn’t for everyone, and I’m honest about this. Not everyone is ready to dive in and commit to 8-12 weeks of daily work and introspection. Some of the lessons challenge our identity and deeply held beliefs. I work with leaders like me: smart, motivated, and educated people who are frustrated and bewildered that somehow our lives have led us down a road to relationships that are so much less than we hoped and dreamed they would be. I can help you not just recapture the relationship you desire. I can help you recapture you. Danyell-
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Podcast Music: Laura Eister.
