Today, at the end of Season 2, I go (deep) 'down the rabbit hole' to discuss reality in this solo episode. Since losing your loved one to suicide have you ever questioned reality? I know the edge of reality -and ‘someplace else’ - is a place I have often found myself firmly standing since the loss of my son Alex to suicide in 2016. This has happened for a few reasons I think.
I think synchronicities are partially to blame & the understanding of life & our connection to the afterlife as well. This is a deep topic - I know I only scratch the surface but hopefully, I give you a lot to think about.
So, just to help, let’s define it, from Webster it is:
1. the world or the state of things as they exist, as opposed to an idealistic or notional idea of them. My son - his energy- exists.
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2. the state or quality of having existence or substance. I will make the same argument as above.
Hmmm…right??? So, find your reality & embrace it. You are not alone. Unfortunately, many of us share this reality - & we understand. Life is all about shifts. Some we make. Some happen to us. Some are welcome, others are our worst nightmare- but what we make of these shifts will define our reality. Sending love always.
A blog post that's an interesting perspective -
My Only Child Died, but I Will Always be his Mother
My first two books (in the Survival series of Life After Suicide Loss) are out. Let me help you survive so that you may find Hope and eventually even start to heal.
A Survival Guide; Facing Life After Suicide Loss
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The Story of Your Survival; A Guided Journal to Navigate These Dark, Stormy Days
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