When one faces an adverse situation, one should respond rather than react. How does one respond?
We should keep our goal above our ego. One should be able to subordinate one's likes and dislikes to the higher purpose of life. When one develops such forbearance and humility as Ishwar Chandra by keeping personal feelings on hold then one shall be able to achieve one's goal and succeed in life.
(https://saibalsanskaar.wordpress.com/2014/03/27/hallmark-of-humility-sub-value-humility-value-right-conduct/)
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