Family systems are complex. They are a constant reminder of our shadow parts and pieces as well as our pain points that live through ourselves and our children. Our unconscious patterning as humans can be toxic when we are limited and stuck. When making choices, we have to orient to taking personal ownership and accountability. It is time to take responsibility for who we are, even if it is challenging to admit. We might be used to self-sabotaging or torturing ourselves when we perceive having the courage to say how we feel is harder. Am I willing to be authentic in order to move through the possibility of getting rejected? Nothing feels more painful than to be rejected by someone you love and care about. It is time to start approaching relating in a healthier way. There are supportive ways to trust your process. There are containers that can hold you accountable for your emotional experience. Stay open. Stay curious. Allow yourself to meet you where you truly are rather than where you want to be. It can feel painful to see how we currently are showing up, yet is can provide space to manifest what we really need and how we really want that to look. The magic happens when we can measure the growth and change that occurs over time. Allow the pain out. That is your gift to the world. That is where your power is- in true authentic feeling. Feeling must be allowed, held, practiced and expressed otherwise it will get bigger. How loud are you willing to let feelings get? How much longer are you willing to feel stuck? What is your tolerance? Lend yourself compassion for however you are being guided and led. Embrace your superpower to feel. Let's untangle the projections and get to the feelings sooner. http://www.magicmomentsplay.com