When we want something, we have to learn how to ask for what it is that will get us there. When we are in relationship with kids, we have to acknowledge that they are learning, growing and changing and that what they need most is an external regulator to help guide them through their emotional process. In order for kids to learn how to foster their emotional intelligence step by step, they need adults in their life who are willing to do the same. Here is the tricky part. Sometimes parents don't actually want what they think they "should" want because according to society and the external influential environment there are expectations for behavior. Be sure to evaluate how much you are able to be honest with yourself. Are you living in alignment with what you truly want or does it feel like there is pressure to conform a certain way? It is so important to be real about what works for you. That might not be for anyone but you to decide. I am here to support you ! http://www.magicmomentsplay.com
