If you are unconfident or feel bad because you don’t know much about styling, colors, etc, or feel uncomfortable in your skin because you don’t know how to look good, How to put things together, or you feel like your body isn’t the way you want, but feel stuck because you don’t know what could do...
Here are 7 things I want to share with you:
Number 1: It’s not your fault.
Unfortunately looking good isn’t taught at school, So how would you know?
Number 2: No woman is perfect. No matter how good they look.
Even the ones that look super good, aren’t perfect my friend. Perfection isn’t a part of this world. This just doesn’t exist. There’s no perfect woman. The only difference is that some women know how to use the tools to present themselves in their most powerful version. And some others don’t, that’s the only difference.
Number 3: It all starts by loving yourself unconditionally
No matter how you look, your body is the only thing in this world that is, and will always be present and ready to serve you. Just for that, it deserves your full gratitude and love.
Number 4: Styling and branding are helpful TOOLS for you
They are meant to be used to transcribe what you have inside to the outer world. Like any tool, you have to allow yourself some time to learn how to use them. The way you show up and brand yourself tells more about you than your words would ever do. We call it non-verbal communication. But how would you know how to use it if you don’t learn how to codify your message?
Number 5: Your mindset Matters. You have the power to shift it in seconds.
89% of women I worked with also feel unconfident to claim their position in society. So, they end up playing a small game by hiding behind micro-excuses. Not stepping into their power to occupy their place in society because they’re afraid some people will think they’re over-ambitious. So they stop, they hide, they find excuses. But, I’m here to tell you this, my friend…. You are qualified!
Your life story is your best Curriculum! If your heart is leading you to something, go there! Because the purpose is bigger than you, you don’t have to feel ashamed for wanting more!
Number 6: Explore your femininity, It knows everything.
Know that just by being a woman, You are powerful, You are magical, you carry the power of creation, You are the channel from which life comes in this world. Don’t you think this is a huge symbol? We are all born with the same feminine power. We have everything inside of us, all we need is to find ways to dive in, and CONNECT.
And Number 7: Surround yourself with like-minded women.
As a woman, you are a small light in the world, as you might have noticed, the world is a dark place most of the time, so what can a small light do in a dark world?
The only way your light can shine brighter is if you get closer to other small lights. Surrounding yourself with like-minded women is what helps you all shine brighter!
Stop blaming yourself for things no one taught you, just allow yourself to learn the tools.
You are powerful, you are special!
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Xo, Kristiane.
