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u"Help - I'm still single, what do I?!" Well, don't panic, you aren't the only one and being in a relationship is not the end of the world.

There are a million reasons why you don't want to be single - you want to move out of your parent's house, you don't want to be alone forever, and you don't want to be the only one not getting married and settling down.

And there are also a million things you're doing to make the situation worse - like constantly wishing you weren't single, getting yourself worked up about never being in love again and comparing yourself to where everyone else is at in life.

Well, I've been there! In 2019, I was a divorced, 20-something, millennial and for the first time as an adult, I was single.

And I had all these feels just like you, wondering what went wrong and if I'd ever make it out of this situation. Plus I was making all the classic mistakes that you do after a break up like trying to date again way too early.

But I worked through these feelings. I took action and I shifted my mindset  - and two years on, I'm still single and literally, SO happy about that.

In this episode, you'll learn to keep control of your own happiness and you'll realise that living life as a single woman isn't all that bad when you think about it in the end, as I share 8 ways you can make the most of your single life so that you can enjoy this journey, rather than get stressed out about "being on track" all the time.

So which one of the eight are you going to make the most of this week?

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Key Moments:

• "Your happiness is within your behaviors; the way I act, what I do, and the actions I take, not with the end result of achieving something that is ultimately out of my control."
• "You are in fact completely and utterly enough, and you aren't going to be on your own forever."
• "You have to get used to the idea that if you really were the only person left in the world and you only had yourself to rely on, you would be okay."
• "It's important that you do question things because we kind of prescribed what love and relationships should look like."
• "Love is love, whatever form it takes."
• "You take ownership of your life, not just in your decisions, not just in your time, not just in your love and relationship, but you are fully empowered in your single state to reflect

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

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- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

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