For part 2 of our conversation with UFC light heavyweight fighter Khalil Rountree Jr and domestic violence expert Rebecca Lee, do you know someone who struggles to keep it together during a high stakes encounter? Maybe you do. What about understanding when and how it’s ok to be angry and / or violent? Or processing your inner-demons? In this episode we go through techniques for managing anger and other potentially overwhelming emotions from two people who know better than almost anyone on the planet.
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Topics and timestamps:
- How not to take on other people’s emotions when active listening: 00:04:01
- Emotional management under extreme circumstances: how Khalil keeps it together when he’s fighting in the cage: 00:10:57
- DV expert Bec’s take on whether violence is ever ok: 00:23:49
- The tools Bec teaches men in her program about how to manage anger and other potentially overwhelming emotions: 00:30:20
- Khalil’s message for people who are anti-violence: 00:37:18
- Power, control and equality between the sexes: 00:41:36
- The demons that still haunt Khalil and how he deals with them: 00:53:51
- Khalil’s experience with suicidal ideation: 01:04:37
- The hypersexualisation of women: 01:08:28
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Links from the show:
- If you are a victim survivor of family or domestic violence, please call 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732) or visit 1800respect.org.au/.
- If you are worried about the way that your own behaviour may be negatively affecting others in your home, call MensLine on 1300 789 978. You can make the call anonymously.
- Click here to review the “Economic cost of violence against women and their children” in Australia
- Click here to watch Khalil’s brutal finish of Karl Roberson in his last fight, UFC fight night, March 11, 2022
- Click here to watch Khalil’s post-fight interview in the octagon after finishing Karl Roberson
- Click here to watch Khalil’s impassioned post-fight press conference
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