Sobriety has taught me a lot, but one of the biggest lessons is learning to mind my own business.
Recently, I dove into Mel Robbins’ new book and her “Let Them” theory, and it felt like it was written just for this stage of my journey. The idea is simple but so powerful: let people do what they’re going to do without trying to control or react to it. Then, Let Me.
It’s been a total game changer for how I handle life, relationships, and even my emotions.
So, how has “Let Them” helped me let go of other people’s issues and focus on my own growth? Sobriety has already made me more empathetic and less reactive, but this mindset takes it to the next level. Whether it’s navigating challenges with my family, parenting an adult child, or dealing with situations in business, this shift has created so much emotional peace. I’ve changed the way I react to everything.
The “Let Them” also relates to our emotional well-being. Dr. Amy Johnson’s perspective on being curious about your emotions and giving yourself grace really hit home for me. Feeling your emotions, rather than reacting to them, has been a huge part of my sober journey. It’s about slowing down, honoring your truth, and knowing that even uncomfortable feelings are part of the human experience.
If you’re on a sober journey or just looking for ways to create a calmer, more peaceful life, this episode is for you.
I’d love to hear your thoughts and how the “Let Them Theory” is working in your life!
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