Uncertainty is scary. When we encounter uncertainty and change, the sympathetic nervous system is often engaged. This is what triggers “flight or fight.”
The topic of moving may prompt your parent to bristle at the suggestion. They resist the idea for a myriad of reasons: Home is familiar. They’re overwhelmed by all their stuff. Change is hard. The uncertainty is scary.
Sometimes the resistance stems from an outdated perception of a retirement community. They envision the old hospital-model nursing home. “You won’t ship me off to a home,” is a common response.
Don't let an outdated view of senior housing keep the person in your care from exploring what could be a life changing and life enriching move.
Pack your patience, as this usually takes time and persistence, but it's always worthwhile in the long run.
A move to a retirement community, once it happens, often feels like the enormous burden of home maintenance, navigation of stairs, lawn care, grocery shopping and meal preparation has been lifted! We have seen this scenario time and again in our work.
And there's the added benefit of a safe community, with lots of opportunities for social, intellectual, and creative engagement.
But how do you get there? How do you move forward? Click here to Schedule A Call with one of our Certified Care Managers. This “Get Acquainted” call is an opportunity to learn more about your situation and determine whether our services fit your needs.
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