Is your fear of coming across as “creepy” holding you back in dating—or worse, making you act less confident, less direct, and less attractive?
In this episode, Charles and Dan dive into the art of managing anxiety in social and romantic situations. Drawing from Chapter 6 of Dating Essentials for Men, they share powerful mindset shifts and practical techniques to help you regulate your nervous system, stop overthinking, and show up with grounded confidence.
Whether you're approaching someone new or navigating rejection, learning how to own your anxiety instead of hiding it is one of the most attractive things you can do.
🔑 What You'll Learn:
- Why diaphragmatic breathing instantly lowers anxiety and improves decision-making
- How visualization can rewire your mind for confident, positive outcomes
- The neuroscience behind your brain's obsession with worst-case scenarios
- Why trying to “figure her out” is a waste of energy—and what to focus on instead
- The surprising connection between anxiety, authenticity, and attraction
- What actually makes someone come across as creepy (and how to avoid it)
- How “testing for interest” increases both clarity and confidence
- The role of self-improvement in becoming rejection-proof
- Why therapy, coaching, or group support accelerates your dating growth
🧠 Key Quote:
“Anxiety is not your enemy. It’s telling you you’re doing something new—and that’s a good thing. That’s attractive.”
📌 Mentioned in the Episode:
- Dating Essentials for Men by Dr. Robert Glover
- How to Be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne
- The Man’s Guide to Women by Drs. John & Julie Gottman
- Habit tracking apps: Productive, Apple Reminders
- Importance of resting heart rate for focus and decision-making
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