Contemplating online dating, but not sure how to begin? Tried a few sites and found the whole process unnatural or unnerving? Feeling embarrassed about using dating apps to find a partner? Host Pat Barbarito encourages listeners to banish such unhelpful mindsets and invites recurring featured guest Dr. Duana Welch to reveal the science-backed secrets of successfully finding love online.
Highlights include:
- How to mentally prepare yourself for online dating, including clarifying your own goals and profiling your perfect partner;
- Exactly what types of pictures your profile should include, how many to upload and in what order, and why picture perfect could backfire;
- Why Dr. Welch recommends against describing yourself in your online profile, and what she views as the best method to create the most compelling and truly personal ad;
- How to evaluate responses, manage appropriate conversational volleys, and, ultimately, take the talk offline;
- A few respectfully worded ‘scripts’ to help you effectively reject mismatched suitors;
- “High status” strategies to avoid becoming pen pals with charming but non-committal candidates;
- The Sex Talk - the right time for physical intimacy, why the 'too soon' conundrum is biochemically driven, and so much more.
BONUS: Stay tuned to the very end, where Pat offers insight into a few legal consequences all relationships should consider.
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