As children, we expect our parents and caregivers to provide for us. In romantic comedies and fairytales, we see one partner “completing” the other or as the Prince Charming saves the princess from the evil witch playing on the screen. Even in the coaching world, there are clients who think the coach will fix everything!
So many of us are conditioned to think that other people will fulfill our own needs. But that’s our responsibility! In this episode, I reveal the four-step process to meet your own needs and explain why doing so is much better for the people you’d otherwise rely on.
4:52 - Why your higher needs are a gift
7:46 - Why you shouldn’t expect other people to meet your needs
10:59 - Why taking ownership of your needs is one of the kindest things you can do for others
12:41 - Step one of meeting your own needs, pay attention to your dirty plan
16:27 - Step number 2 of meeting your own needs is about welcoming the knowing
20:49 - The third step to meet your own needs, hold space for the solution to what you need to come to you
26:27 - The final step and how it can inspire you going forward
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