An A.S.M. means “Ain’t $hit Man.” The term also applies to women: ASW. They’re someone toxic and selfish who can completely wreck the mental health of who they’re with. How do you recognize an ASM/W? There are a few key traits and red flags to look out for: they’re disrespectful, lazy, manipulative and they like to sit on their ass at home spending money that isn’t theirs. Have the times changed so much that women are pressured into wearing less and less clothes on social media just to get the attention of a would-be romantic interest? And with all the new communication technologies and dating platforms, have women become enablers of ASMs? Did Tinder ruin chivalry? Nina seems to think so! (She’s gotten too many messages that just said: “Anal?”)
Listen to this episode to hear Anthony’s and Queen Nina’s deep discussion as to who’s really at fault when it comes to ASM/Ws, Then ASs themselves or their enablers and to figure out how to spot one as well as how to protect yourself from one.