In this episode Anthony and Queen Nina discuss the question of why is it that men rule the relationship, but women rule the marriage? And is there a difference between marriage and the relationship? Is it that men control the relationship before the marriage, but after the "I do" then the woman is in charge? They discuss the idea that women are the gatekeepers of sex, while the men are the gatekeepers for marriage, and what that boils down to. They revisit the topic of the different criteria that men and women have for finding a significant other, whereas women prefer someone who can provide security and are intellectually mature enough to be mentally engaging, while it seems that most men just want some young child-bearing hips and don't really care about how smart women are. Listen to the episode to learn about some interesting theories as to why some common stereotypes about men and women might actually make sense.