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In this episode of Stepmum Space, we’re joined by Madison — a woman in her twenties who stepped into a relationship with an older man, three daughters, and two exes. Madison shares her honest journey of navigating stepfamily dynamics, building relationships with children close to her own age, and learning how to protect her peace.

We dive into:

• The emotional labour of “mum work” and how to avoid burnout
• Why it’s okay to find kids annoying — and what that really means
• How to recalibrate your role as a stepmum when things feel off
• The importance of maintaining boundaries with your partner, the children, and the exes
• What it looks like to choose yourself without guilt

This episode is a must-listen for anyone in a stepfamily, especially younger stepmums learning to balance love, responsibility, and self-respect.

Remember...

• Boundaries aren’t selfish — they’re essential.
• You don’t have to take on all the “mum work.”
• It’s okay to feel overwhelmed — and to step back when needed.
• Relationships with exes require clarity, not chaos.
• Your role can evolve — and that’s a sign of growth.

If this episode resonated with you, please hit follow, rate, and review wherever you listen — it helps Stepmum Space reach more incredible women navigating step family life.

We’re wrapping up Series 7, but we’ll be back soon with fresh stories and expert insights. Got a story to share? Reach out katie@stepmumspace.com or connect with us on Instagram/facebook/tiktok @stepmumspace.

Keywords:

Stepmum podcast, blended family boundaries, dating a man with kids, step-parenting advice, emotional labour in stepfamilies, young stepmum experience, navigating exes, parenting with partners, recalibrating stepmum role, maintaining boundaries, Stepmum Space podcast

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