A commencement speech with Gary Vee and he's like, "You got it beat into your heads that there's a participation trophy."
Yeah.
"That losing is okay."
Well, that losing is actually so bad that you have to make everything okay.
Yeah, yeah.
That you can't even feel loss.
And he's like, "That's some bullshit because then what inherently happens is that you get so afraid to fail, you don't want to try."
Oh, yeah.
Okay.
So, and then you see failures like the ultimate thing and then also it turns into "I'm not going to do something until it's perfect."
Yeah.
Like nothing's fucking perfect.
Yeah.
Well, nothing's perfect.
You never do it.
And so now that I'm doing my TikToks, what is your TikTok?
Because 13 inch man, dingo, hung warrior.
No.
I think it's the same thing.
It's a, oh, Wesley Reynolds WTV.
It gave it to me.
Oh, really?
Yeah.
And so.
And so he just went with a generated name.
You know it, girl.
And so, oh, I mean, I could change it later, but I, well, because I was like, I mean, TikTok, dude, I don't watch this stuff.
You know, I'm too old for this and actually what one thing that Gary Vee was pointing out was that everything ages up.
So like, if you think about it, Facebook started out as a college thing.
Yeah, I remember.
But only college people would get it.
And they're like, oh, you know, those are like for the 18 to 20 something year olds.
And then now, and then it turned into like 30 and 40 year olds.
Now it's like your parents and grandparents are using Facebook.
He's like, so every, and he said Instagram and TikTok are actually being used by people in the mid 40s.
So one of the things is that you never know.
You don't, you don't understand that that's what, uh, that that, that, so like when I look, here my, these are, I've only done nine TikToks.
The one I just released, it was a ...
If you're going to start something, start it. The best time to start something was 20 years ago. The next second best time is today.
So most people are like, well, I should have done this.
Oh, I wish I would have invested in Google.
Oh, I wish I had done this.
Well, fuck them.
Look around for the next Google, man.
You can't, you know, people, and I was talking to one of the mechanics.
He's like, oh, you know, if I would have done this, I would have, you know, because you said he was doing cocaine or something like doing like three thousand bucks a week.
Oh, he's like, if I would have, if I would have saved that money when I was younger, I would, I wouldn't be here.
I said, that's the thing.
I was listening to a book called The Power of Regret.
They were talking about how I know.
I know.
I said it.
I would have regret.
Yeah.
We've talked about it.
And it said, don't think you're smart, girl.
No, I was like, it sounds familiar.
Yeah.
And the guy said, you know, every time people say, I should have done this or, you know, I missed the boat on this, they're thinking of the best possible terms.
I said, if you would have fucking done that and then, you know, say you, you, you put your money in a company and you got like 10 million dollars, who's to say you want to just blow on that shit away?
Yeah.
Like, you know, you're always thinking of the best possible scenario and that's probably wouldn't have happened or might not have happened.
And you would have been in the same fuckin
