Part 4: Top 5 Relationship Savers. By now, your relationships have taken a right turn toward amazing, right? Relationships Saver: Choose to be endeared…choosing to love something about someone.
· I need to start this with how much I love my wife. You know where I’m going with this…
· Since the day we met, we have each had behaviors that have invited patience and grace because of our annoying behaviors. I’m sure I’m not alone in choosing to be annoyed with other people’s behaviors…
· My digestive system and her drinking…
· We have the choice to be endeared. These are the very things that if something took our lives today…we would remember these things. (Good will hunting – Robin Williams's wife’s farting in her sleep)
· Son’s snoring…So far, I’ve talked about valid biological reasons as to why we have annoying behaviors. What if they are not valid? Perhaps there is an unmet need.
· I think about friends. They are just as annoying, right? But we don’t live with them. AND they are a reprieve from our own family’s endearing qualities.
· I want to keep empowering you to CHOOSE. You are not a victim. This is how you step into Living Lucky!
Living Lucky examples.
** Safety issues are not to be endeared.
How does choosing to be endeared help you LEAD Lucky? In the family setting, it is obvious. It is also true for business because it allows you to be more patient with everyone around you. When you focus on finding the good in people by choosing to be endeared, you are less critical and create more of an environment people want to be in.
Closing: What is one thing you will take away from the episode today? What will you do?
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