Today, I sit down with Mr. Andrew Michael Houghton, founder of the Extraordinary Men’s Network and a men's life coach based in Seoul, South Korea.
Mr. Houghton shares his powerful transformation from an insecure, addicted man to a sober, purpose-driven father, coach, and community builder. We explore how modern men struggle with identity in the face of cultural shifts, economic pressure, and the evolving definitions of masculinity. He opens up about coaching men in their 40s through self-esteem issues and midlife transitions, revealing why true masculinity means being honest, disciplined, and emotionally grounded.
We tackle the challenges men face worldwide—from the “quarter-life crisis” of disappointed college grads to the misunderstood midlife crisis that often stems from identity loss. Mr. Houghton explains why men today feel pulled between traditional expectations and modern sensitivities, and how societal pressures impact their mental health, self-worth, and relationships. We also discuss the dark side of performance culture and why young men are burning out trying to meet unrealistic standards set by social media and comparison.
Mr. Houghton offers a global perspective, blending British upbringing, Korean culture, and personal growth to redefine what it means to be a man today. We also discuss the role of AA, the danger of rationalizing addiction, and how his community provides a safe, non-competitive space for men to heal and grow. Whether you're a young man finding your way or a father rebuilding identity, this episode delivers deep insights on vulnerability, leadership, and living life with discipline. Check the links below to join the Extraordinary Men’s Network or connect with Mr. Houghton directly.
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