Parents need to help their child understand what forgiveness is and why they need to forgive others. For the Christian, forgiveness is based on God’s love and His forgiveness of us. God also commands us to forgive others. He even lists consequences if we don’t forgive others. Unforgiveness can hinder our prayers and our personal relationship with God.
Even from a worldly perspective, psychologists, counselors and social workers recognize the importance of forgiveness and the negative effects of unforgiveness. Unforgiveness can lead to bitterness and hatred that impacts our happiness and quality of life. And it causes stress and anxiety which in turn affects our physical health and well-being.
So where do we start to help our young children understand how important forgiveness is?
1. We model forgiveness ourselves.
2. Teach them about God’s forgiveness.
3. Share scriptures about forgiveness.
4. Help them understand it’s ok to express their feelings to us and God.
5. Explain to them that forgiveness is not a feeling—it’s a choice and an action they take.
6. Teach them that God says not to take revenge (try to get back at them, which is what we humanly want to do).
7. Teach them what they can do after they have forgiven someone. Ask God to help them with their feelings. Brainstorm some ways together they could show kindness instead of taking revenge.
8. One practical, concrete way to demonstrate forgiveness to a younger child: Buy a helium balloon, take it outside and ask your child to pray after you or pray on their own, “I forgive ______ for_______. Help me show kindness and love to them.” Then let the balloon go and watch it disappear into the heavens.
Scriptures on forgiveness: Matthew 5:43-44; Matthew 6:14-15; Matthew 18:21-22; Mark 11:25; Luke 6:37; Ephesians 4:32; Colossians 3:13.
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