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In this Part 2 episode, Robin continues her conversation with Krista, a 49-year old late bloomer. Krista never really used any labels for herself regarding how she felt about boys and girls, men and women - but she did know she was never really enamored with ‘guys’, when all of her female school friends were! After a secret relationship with a girl in high school, (they even went to the high school Prom together), Krista moved out of state for college and married a man when she was quite young. The minute she left that 3-year marriage, (and around the time of her college graduation), her very first thought turned to - you guessed it - WOMEN! But, not knowing where to find her community of gay women or how to even begin to date a woman, Krista’s attention was distracted by a very nice young guy, who she would ultimately marry.    

In this episode of the “Coming Out Late” podcast, you will hear Krista talk about . . . 

• WHO and HOW she was outed to her husband.
• Does anyone, besides us, have the ‘right’ to out us to people we know/love?
• Krista’s plans for her future: divorce? Move out?
• Learning to NOT JUDGE someone when they’ve had an affair. “Acceptance” and “kindness” is always the better way to go, versus ‘judgment’.
• What constitutes an ‘affair’? Is the thinking around ‘affairs’ also an old construct that needs to be re-thought and re-visited?
• Letting go of an unhealthy catalyst relationship.
• Am I still gay if I’m no longer with my catalyst?
• Making gay friends is soooooo important! Building healthy friendships and building a gay community should be the priority over a relationship.
• Recognizing unhealthy self-soothing behaviors (i.e., ‘shopping’), and recognizing codependent behavior!
• Get outside in nature; get to know yourself more - spend alone time w/yourself.
• How 1:1 private Coaching w/Robin has helped Krista out enormously; Robin has helped her with her catalyst experience, the messy middle, and moving forward.
• If YOU would like to share your story (anonymously or publicly), on the Coming Out Late podcast, email Robin at: Comingoutlater@gmail.com.
• To receive one-on-one private Coaching with Robin, email her at: Comingoutlater@gmail.com.
• Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation for all the time, love and energy she pours into our Community. Any and all donations are deeply, deeply appreciated!!  Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass

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THE 2023 “COMING OUT LATE RETREAT” SCHEDULE:
We are “retreating” to:

(1) Phoenix, Arizona: April 13, 14, 15, & 16, 2023

(2) Rehoboth Beach, DE: April 27, 28, 29, and 30, 2023 - “Women’s Fest”

To be put on the waiting list for ANY of the THREE Retreats, (Florida, Arizona or Delaware), email Robin at: Comingoutlater@gmail.com.

“WOMEN’S FEST” RETREAT, REHOBOTH BEACH, DE

For more information about the details of the “Women’s Fest” weekend itself, they are slowly adding information to their website as their event details get solidified; you can go to: https://www.camprehoboth.com//womensfest.

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