Description

In this episode, I explore the common perception among men that women are "crazy," focusing on the root causes of this belief. As a couples counselor, I've identified five key areas where men and women differ significantly: comfort with expressing emotions, verbal communication styles, stress responses, risk aversion, and multitasking abilities. Understanding these differences can help both men and women improve their relationships by fostering better communication and empathy.

Throughout the podcast, I discuss how men can develop coping mechanisms to manage these differences and how women can explain their perspectives to their partners. By shedding light on these gender-specific behaviors, my aim is to reduce tension and promote harmony in relationships, ultimately preventing misunderstandings and conflicts that often arise from these fundamental differences.

Memorable Quotes

1. "Women are nuts, according to men."
2. "Men value stoicism, the idea that they can cut themselves off from emotion to focus on logic."
3. "Women use communication to build relationships, which can drive men crazy because they don't see the point."
4. "Men have a simple fight or flight response to stress, while women tend to 'tend and befriend.'"
5. "The lack of risk aversion in women can drive men insane because they don't see the logic in it."
6. "Multitasking is a magic trick to me; I don't understand how women do it effectively."
7. "Men tend to focus 100% on the task at hand, forgetting everything else, while women juggle multiple thoughts."
8. "As a husband, don't ask your wife what she needs help with; instead, pitch specific ideas to lighten her mental load."

Interested in working with Jon directly? Find him at https://MrSpirituality.com