Parenting in general is a big task but what if you have four or more? Join Yamel on today's captivating episode as she engages in a candid conversation with Tabitha, unraveling the secrets to nurturing both parenting and marriage amidst the joys and challenges of a bustling household.
Tabitha Blue, a mother of six, transitioned from blogging to being an author, life coach, and speaker. She provides valuable content on DIY, cooking, life coaching, style, beauty, gifts, and travel. Follow her on Instagram and her blog FreshMommy for more.
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Motherhood doesn't mean losing your identity. A valuable lesson for mothers is striving to be their best selves while guiding their children's growth. Yamel and Tabitha have chosen a flexible approach to motherhood, avoiding fear of failure or permanent sacrifices. They adjust priorities hourly, daily, or seasonally, focusing on different children's needs and seeking assistance when necessary. Here are some tips they share on how you can do the same!
Prioritize Spaces with no “Kid Talk”
Regardless of the number of children, watching them grow up and leave the house makes cherished moments together even more precious. The relationship between a mother and her partner can sometimes fade into the background. To prevent this, Tabitha and Chris prioritize spending time together during the day. Their rule is simple: no talking about the kids. Whether it's DIY projects on weekends or quick day dates like lunch, a walk, or a chat, they focus on each other without discussing their children or work. It doesn't have to be a planned outing; the key is quality time without thoughts of kids or work.
How Do You Afford Big Families?
To afford big families, consider carefully allocating finances. Opt for restaurant outings on special occasions with select children to foster connections. Cooking meals at home saves money and creates bonding moments. Encourage sharing among siblings for thriftiness and interpersonal skills. Wait and assess before making significant purchases, teaching responsibility and mindfulness. Embrace a simple lifestyle, promoting organization, reusability, and passing items down.
Family Dynamics
Ensuring equal importance for each child in the family can be challenging considering their varying ages, genders, and needs. Individual dates with her kids and emphasizing caring and joy among siblings are helpful strategies for Tabitha. Additionally, paying attention to each child's interests and seeking support from your partner can make a significant difference. Your partner can assist in facilitating tasks for all the kids while you provide support from the background.
Mothers of all ages, types and family sizes are just as impo
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