God uses circumstances to get our attention. How many of us agree that in most of the negative circumstances we are or were in we put ourselves in that predicament? I will speak first and for myself that I know I put myself in that dangerous and traumatic circumstance. The one thing I learned about circumstances is that it's to teach us and bring us back to the Lord Jesus or closer to him. I hate that I had to go through the physical abuse and the mental torment from the Narcissistic relationship however, if I can share my story to avoid someone else having to go through the hurt and pain then I feel I'm doing a great service.