Description

This teaching by Dr. Bruce Ware focuses on Christian parenting, emphasizing the role of parents as instruments in God's hands to shape and nurture their children spiritually. The overarching theme is "participatory parenting," which highlights how parents work in partnership with God in raising children who are faithful and obedient to Him. Dr. Ware cites numerous biblical passages, such as Ephesians 6, to support his arguments.

Key Points:

1. The Role of Authority: Parents are considered authorities in children's lives, reflecting the God-like authority that they should recognize. This teaches them about obedience and the honor that should be given to those placed above them by God.
2. Nature of Children: The rebellious nature of children is acknowledged, and the talk emphasizes how spiritual nurturing and discipline are essential to guide them in God's ways.
3. Biblical Mandate: Dr. Ware refers to specific biblical texts like Psalm 78 and Deuteronomy 6 to underline the responsibility parents have to teach their children about God’s word and works.
4. The Importance of the Father: The role of the father is particularly emphasized, citing Psalm 128. Fathers are encouraged to fear the Lord as that would have a ripple effect, blessing his family.
5. Utilizing Time Wisely: Practical suggestions are given for how parents can make the most of their time with their children, such as memorizing scripture during long car rides.
6. Balanced Priorities: The teaching warns against allowing activities like sports to overshadow the spiritual nurturing of children. While such activities are not bad in themselves, they shouldn't take precedence over spiritual growth.
7. Life Application: Parents are urged to engage in family devotions, scripture memorization, and prayer. Dr. Ware recommends simplicity and consistency in these practices.
8. Watchfulness: Parents are advised to be careful about their children's influences, such as friends and media content, as they can significantly impact their spiritual development.
9. Heart vs. Behavior: Dr. Ware emphasizes that parents should care as much about their children’s heart condition as they do about behavior or intellectual grasp of biblical truths.
10. Releasing and Trusting: Finally, parents are reminded that their children ultimately belong to the Lord. They should be willing to release them into God’s service, wherever that might lead, even if it means physical separation from them.

Dr. Ware closes the teaching by urging parents to trust God in raising their children, acknowledging that He is the primary agent of change and growth in their lives. He also emphasizes that this parenting model is not just a responsibility but a privilege granted by God.