When a preteen son courageously expressed his wish to live with his father, his mom was overwhelmed with emotions, doubting her role and abilities as a mother.
What followed was a journey through the challenges of co-parenting, understanding how our brains resist change, and recognizing our negative biases. These insights are ones I am excited to share with you.
In this honest conversation, I explore the emotional turmoil that comes with a child's decision to change their living arrangements. I highlight a mother's personal experience that taught her the importance of questioning our initial reactions and focusing on emotional well-being while respecting a child's growing independence.
We also discuss the fine line between respecting our children's choices and the natural instinct to protect them. Recognizing that our protective instincts may not always suit the current situation, this episode offers guidance on how to communicate with empathy—both towards yourself and your preteen.
Join me, Esther Mbabazi, as we delve into how fostering resilience, self-awareness, and emotional regulation can strengthen your bond with your child during these crucial preteen years.
This discussion is about personal growth as much as it is about navigating the complexities of modern co-parenting.
Do you lie in bed awake at night, secretly worry that the yelling and criticism are hurting your kids; and want a safe place to change that without shame?
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