Sexologist Jamie Bucirde joins Xavier to discuss her career, the current state of sex education, the correlation between sex and happiness, the positive and negatives of porn, OnlyFans, birth control, the diminishing joy of sex in long term relationships, the orgasm gap, the power dynamics of sexual relations, dangerous sexual fantasies, unique kinks and pleasures, polyamorous and monogamous and much much more. 

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00:00:00 – Cabaret Fringe Show l

00:06:00 – Why is Sex so Taboo

00:10:00 – Eastern vs Western Philosophies for Sex Education

0016:20 – Porn: Good or Bad

00:24:40 – We live in a ‘Puritanical” Society  

00:28:50 – Sex and Happiness  

00:00:00 – Birth Control (Effects, Attraction, Sex Appeal, Male Birth Control)

00:40:50 – Reaction to Opening Sex Dialogue

00:43:00 – Sex losing Appeal in Long Term Relationships (How to Fix) 

00:52:15 – Polyamorous vs Monogamous 

00:55:40 – Why aren’t Women having Orgasms 

01:00:20 – Power Dynamic of Sex

01:03:10 – Does Body Count Matter

01:08:50 – OnlyFans….Empowering or Detrimental? 

01:17:20 – Dangerous Sexual Desires 

01:23:30 – Unique Kinks and Fantasies 

01:26:10 – Overthinking Sex