Define martyr = A person who voluntarily suffers death as the penalty of witnessing or refusing to renounce a religion.
Martyrdom is about dying for your biblical beliefs but to live as a martyr is to spend your life living for those same beliefs. The most effective way to live as a martyr has less to do with living against something and is driven by living for something.
Galatians 5:22-26 ESV
Living as a martyr is crucifying those tendencies that are opposed to biblical truth. This is a choice just like allowing the fruit of the Spirit to grow in our lives.
When peace, like a river, attendeth my way,
When sorrows like sea billows roll;
Whatever my lot, Thou hast taught me to say,
It is well, it is well with my soul.
Mark 4: 35-41 ESV
Psalm 46:1-11 ESV
Philippians 4:4-9 ESV