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Hi friends, and Happy Thanksgiving.
Today, I want to talk about gratitude, not the kind that’s easy to find when everything is going well, but the kind you dig for when it feels like your world is crumbling.
The past two years have been some of the most challenging of my life, and, honestly, gratitude often felt out of reach. But as I sit with everything I’ve experienced, I’ve come to see that this journey has been about more than just healing, it’s been about rediscovery, about letting go of who I thought I had to be, and finally stepping into who I truly am.
For years, I ran from my emotions. I stored them away, locked in the trunk of a car that I refused to open. I told myself I could figure it out, that I was okay. But deep down, I wasn’t. And in the last two years, I made a different choice. I stopped pretending. I stopped running. I started seeking, seeking answers in my ancestors, in the wisdom they left behind, in the lessons I was too busy to see.
I grieved the roles I thought were mine to play; the fixer, the caretaker, the person who had to hold it all together. For so long, I thought it was my job to make others happy, to carry their burdens. But the truth is, it never was. That was a role I adopted out of a need to feel useful, to feel worthy.
And let me tell you, grieving that part of myself wasn’t easy. It hurt...physically, emotionally, somatically. My body bore the weight of it all as I processed years of stored pain. It made me sick at times, but it also made me whole.
For the first time, I began to truly see the people in my life. I saw them for who they were, not who I hoped they’d be. And I began to release the weight of responsibilities that were never mine to carry.
Even my vision for my career changed. What I thought was my purpose was only part of the story. I realized that I had to let those long-buried emotions out of the trunk and let them sit beside me. And when I did, my path shifted.
Here’s the thing about gratitude: it doesn’t come easy when you’re hurting. It’s hard to see the light when you feel broken and disconnected. But what I’ve learned is that even in the hardest moments, gratitude isn’t about ignoring the pain—it’s about honoring it. It’s about seeing the lessons in the struggle and trusting that it’s all part of you
Overwhelmed? Frustrated? Tired of the BS? You are not alone. I’ve been there, and I’ve helped so many women just like you get out of the funk and start living the life they deserve.
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