What happens when you refuse to give up on a dream, even after 13 straight losses? Paris Matthews, Miss Utah 2024, reveals the extraordinary journey that led her from wearing "evening gowns from Ross" at her first pageant to representing Utah on the Miss America stage.
This conversation peels back the glossy veneer of pageantry to explore something far more valuable: the power of authentic self-compassion. Paris shares how she lost 13 competitions without ever placing before finally winning her first local title. Rather than becoming discouraged, she found value in each competition, viewing the Miss America program as professional development that enhanced her career as a child life specialist—a healthcare professional who helps children cope with hospital experiences.
Paris' candid revelations about her mental health struggles following Miss America are particularly poignant. Despite professionally teaching coping skills to children, she found herself experiencing panic attacks and anxiety that required her to practice the self-compassion she preaches. Her vulnerability in discussing these challenges demonstrates the courage that defines her reign far more than any crown.
The most powerful takeaway? "Don't count yourself out." Paris describes how she finally succeeded when she stopped trying to be what she thought judges wanted and instead embraced her authentic self—from her natural speaking style to her passion for helping hospitalized children through her "Power of Play" initiative. As she prepares to crown her successor, Paris reflects on maintaining identity beyond the title and the importance of allowing yourself to dream big enough to include even the seemingly impossible.
Whether you're interested in pageantry or simply seeking inspiration to persist through repeated setbacks, this conversation offers wisdom applicable far beyond the stage. Listen now, and discover what becomes possible when you stop counting yourself out and embrace authentic self-compassion.
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