What happens when you pursue a dream for a decade, facing rejection six times, before finally achieving it on your last possible attempt? Carlehr Swanson, Miss Virginia 2024, reveals the powerful journey that transformed her from a shy music student into a confident state titleholder whose mission transcends the crown itself.
Carlehr's story isn't just about persistence—it's about the profound self-discovery that happens when you stop trying to become what others expect and finally embrace your authentic self. "Once I finally accepted this is who I am, this is what I can bring to this position, this is why I'm special...that acceptance led me to winning," she reflects. Standing on stage during her final attempt at age 28, rather than feeling desperate for the title, she found herself thinking: "I'm blessed either way."
Through her "Music is Unity" initiative, Carlehr shares how music became her bridge to connection when visiting her grandmother in rehabilitation. What began as personal performances evolved into a movement, partnering with organizations like Sing for Hope and Music and Memory to demonstrate music's power to unite communities and help those with memory disorders. One of her most touching practices? Standing by the door after school appearances to ensure every single child—especially the shy ones—has a moment to be seen and heard.
The conversation explores the challenges of balancing self-care with service, handling imposter syndrome, and finding purpose beyond performance. As she prepares to pass on her crown and resume her PhD studies in music, Carlehr leaves us with this perspective: "Move me out of the way—this is about the people I encounter along this journey." Her approach reminds us that our greatest impact often comes when we stop focusing on ourselves and instead become vessels for something greater.
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