In this episode of the Hey, Am I Adopted? podcast, host Emily and Gene Trowbridge speaks with Thomas Mason about his adoption story. Thomas shares his experiences growing up adopted, the curiosity he had about his biological family, and the impact of adoption on his identity. He discusses the challenges of not having a medical history and how he navigated his teenage years with the knowledge of being adopted.
The conversation also touches on the emotional aspects of connecting with biological family members and the reflections on nature versus nurture. In this episode, the conversation delves into the complexities of adoption, exploring themes of identity, curiosity about biological families, and the dynamics within adoptive families.
Thomas shares personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's background and the impact of adoption on personal identity. They also discuss the significance of creating awareness and support for adoptive families, highlighting the need for open conversations and shared experiences.
- Thomas was adopted at birth and always knew about it.
- He feels blessed to have been adopted into a loving family.
- Thomas's mother wrote letters to his biological mother for years without a response.
- Curiosity about his biological background was a recurring theme in his life.
- He experienced phases of wanting to know more about his origins and then not caring.
- Thomas's brother was excited about his arrival but faced challenges with the adjustment.
- He has a strong resemblance to his own children, which helped with his identity.
- The fear of rejection is a common theme among adoptees.
- Thomas's mother was very supportive of his curiosity about his biological family.
- The conversation highlights the complexities of identity for adopted individuals. Emily reflects on her curiosity about her biological parents.
- Thomas shares his experience of feeling different from his adoptive family.
- The importance of shared experiences in understanding family dynamics.
- Emily discusses the impact of birthdays on adoptees' feelings of belonging.
- Thomas acknowledges the curiosity that arises with having children.
- They stress the need for awareness and support for adoptive families.
