Monica Cox is the founder of Finding Fertility and a coach who turned an eight-year fertility struggle—and a late-in-life caregiving pause—into a mission. We spoke about rethinking hustle, honoring seasons of life, and building a business that serves your body, family, and long-term joy.
Monica’s story challenges the “boss babe” grind and the instant-success myth. After stepping back from her business to care for her father and two young sons, she asked the question too many entrepreneurs avoid: what am I really doing this for? That pause changed everything—how she shows up, how she uses AI, and how she protects the “cellular health” that fuels sustainable performance. As she puts it, “AI has absolutely changed the game,” but it’s leverage, not a license to burn out. You still need boundaries, recovery, and what she calls “radical honesty with grace.”
Her core ideas land with pragmatic bite: “You got to do the work. You got to show up,” but also “Your nervous system is the blueprint.” Monica explains why clearing emotions isn’t enough—you also have to rewire patterns in the mundane: notice the old loop and choose differently, again and again. Her mantra for interrupting unhelpful habits? “We don’t live there anymore.” And beneath the strategy sits a simple north star: “The basis is joy.”
You’ll hear how fertility and entrepreneurship mirror each other, why chasing worth through sales creates fragile businesses, and how to pair AI + human support without recreating hustle in prettier packaging. Expect candid moments (“The math isn’t mathing”) and empowering reframes (“I was never infertile… I was solving issues”), plus a reminder many high-flyers hide: “Most of life is failures.” The work is showing up anyway.
Key takeaways
Monica’s closing invitation: “You are the controller of your reality.” Get curious, set a kinder pace, and build in a way your future self can actually live with.
