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There was black dust shooting out of my vents, and I knew exactly whose fault it was. Mine. I didn't ask.

In this Shower Sprinkle, I'm sharing a messy (literally) day at home and an upcoming surgery I've been avoiding asking about, even though I used to work in the OR. Both taught me the same thing: sometimes we skip the questions because we're excited, relieved, or honestly scared of the answer. That avoidance costs us clarity, peace of mind, and sometimes a couple of hours of scrubbing walls.

This week, I'm challenging you to look at where you're not asking, and whether you're asking in a way that actually gets you a clear answer.

In this episode:

• Why we say yes before we get clear
• How avoiding questions can be a way of protecting ourselves from what we don't want to know
• The difference between asking and asking well
• Looking back on the Grief Series and what asking made possible

Ask yourself this week:

• What question am I avoiding right now?
• Am I scared of the answer?
• Could I rephrase it so I get a clearer response?

Come Gather with us 🍂
Christine Marcario and I are hosting Gathered, an intimate retreat for women, November 5–7 in New Jersey. It's all about asking yourself the real questions, getting clear, and leaving with action steps and a sisterhood. Seating is limited to 8, and some seats are already gone. Ask us any questions and ask yourself if this feels aligned! 

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Music by: Jason and Ashley Scheufler
Artwork by:  https://www.instagram.com/graphx_ink/