This episode of "When I Stop Fighting the Podcast" features a heartfelt conversation between host Daryl Dittmer and guest Shannan Kym, an international award-winning author, TEDx speaker, and transformational mentor. Shannan shares her journey from a childhood marked by abuse, addiction, and trauma, to a life of self-discovery and empowerment. The discussion begins with reflections on the importance of connection and the serendipity of relationships formed through podcasting, emphasizing that people come into our lives for a reason—either to teach us or for us to learn from them.
Shannan bravely recounts her upbringing in a family plagued by generational addiction, mental illness, and violence. As the youngest of eight children, she endured emotional and physical abuse, which deeply affected her sense of self-worth and identity. Despite attempts to escape through athletics and later battling her own addiction, Shannan describes hitting rock bottom before experiencing a powerful spiritual awakening. This turning point led her to prioritize her sobriety, self-love, and the well-being of her children, ultimately inspiring her to leave toxic relationships and environments.
The conversation delves into the concept of "messes" in life, with both Daryl and Shannan agreeing that challenges and hardships are necessary for personal growth. Shannon emphasizes that taking responsibility and setting healthy boundaries are crucial steps toward healing. She explains how learning to love herself from within transformed her external world, attracting healthier relationships and opening new opportunities. Her journey illustrates how self-acceptance and the willingness to let go of the past can lead to profound change and happiness.
As the episode concludes, Shannan offers insights into her upcoming book, "Finding the Answers Within You: Ten Pathways Toward Self-Discovery." She outlines the core themes, including awareness, clarity of desires, and the necessity of leaving unhealthy environments. Shannan’s message is one of hope, resilience, and the importance of gratitude—even for painful experiences—as they shape our paths and lead us to our true purpose. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own journeys and to recognize the power of taking charge of their lives, just as Shannan has done.
Find Shannan here:
https://www.shannankym.com
https://www.selfdiscoverypathways.com
